i hate when people are itching to tell you something but once they do they act like you have already judged them for it and are hating life that they ever told you.

here is the breakdown: i cant help that you were compelled to tell me. now that you have, dont hate me for it. either confide in me and keep it real or just dont tell me at all. sticking someone in some tight bind with personal information is a dead end since you were so concerned on telling them yet hating them once they knew.

this happened to me tonight. a friend was itching to tell me something i knew in my gut has been well over due for months now- but they just decided to tell me now and once they got it off their chest i instantly received snarky remarks and attitude in return.

hmm…how can i be of service for you?

do me a favor, before you tell something to someone out of guilt, make sure you have already decided what you think would be an ideal way for the person receiving it to reply or react